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SINGLE WOMEN EMPOWERMENT
WORKSHOP IN DANG
Organised by Women for Human Rights (WHR)
9-11 June 2003
Executive Summary
It is often stated that social affirms that
a woman's place in society make the level of civilization. By
this definition one is left wondering at what level of civilization
Nepalese society is. Discrimination against the single women
has followed a set pattern in our country. The single women
have been looked down upon, trapped within a cultural and religious
framework. The death of the husband was the start of woman's
problem; it will be harsher if the woman is young enough.
Though there are some positive situation
laws towards the rights of the single women but due to the societal
structure and the deep rooted cultural phenomena, the single
women prefer to stay as a single on her marital home and be
dependent than be unwelcome in her parental home.
A young single woman is often viewed as an
adversary and the family often taunts her as being responsible
for her son's death. Their own parents try to provide emotional
support and prefer her to stay in her marital home rather than
come back to them. One of the biggest traumas that the single
woman faces after the death of their husband is the whole questions
of support of shelter.
A definite social change alone can alleviate
the trauma of single women. In a patriarchal society like ours
change has to emanate from the man. The single woman needs social
encouragement to get over her traumas and pick up the threads
of her life again in terms of taking up a career. The first
utmost thing is that single women requite a time and space to
meet organize and unleash their own power for change. The organizations
agencies should be sensitized to examine the actions they are
taking to support single women their own role in perpetuating
patriarchy. It is necessary to build social awareness and to
change the mind of people towards single women.
The Single Women workshop conducted by WHR
were designed and targeted at single women to make enlighten
in the form of social cultural, economical, legal and political
issues including long term and short term strategies to enhance
the capacity of single women so that they can act as change
agents in the communities. The workshop focused to create awareness
in the public, the media and administration regarding the plight
of single women and encouraged participants to ensure to get
back the socio-cultural rights to live as the human being in
this earth, to revolt for legal rights, and also the inheritance
rights which in turn would give them the economic independence.
Dang was found to be in the most deprived
stage where people in Dang seem to just surviving and not living
their lives. The training programs also highlighted on the importance
of single women group in the districts which enables the single
women where to be aware of where they are now and where they
can reach up to.
However, there are great variations in the
life of the single women in Dang due to the so called lower
castes, suffer greater discrimination and marginalization than
others. Most of them are found malnourished and ill and at the
same time they are often badly treated in the homes of welcoming
relatives.
Among the participants, most of them were
the victims of the insurgency from all the parties of Maoist,
the security forces and the civilians. The sad part of the fact
is that no concerted efforts has been made so far to uphold
the rights of the single women of Maoist and civilians in spite
of the single women of security forces are getting a long sum
amount of compensation from the government. it is clearly understood
that the social costs of last seven years of insurgency in the
country have been enormous in Dang district and the socio- economic
conditions of the single women are amongst the worst than in
other districts. However, WHR has formed two groups of single
women in Phulbari VDC and Goltakuri VDC and opened the bank
account with the aim to start Saving/Credit programs within
the single women. WHR, from its opportunity Funds have provided
scholarships to the two children of needy young single women
for their education.
Overall, the stigma of single women in Dang
is a social issue and what is important for them is awareness
against social taboos, shelter, occupation, employment and their
property rights. A carefully worked out strategies involving
rehabilitated and implementation measures with capacity building
and sensitization so society will alone give these victimized
women the dignity that is rightfully theirs.
The workshop of Single Women Empowerment in
Dang would not have been possible without the help and support
of Friedrich Ebert Stiftung to WHR. This in turn has reflected
the stage of the marginalized single women of Dang. Therefore,
WHR family hereby would like to thank the team of Friedrich
Ebert Stiftung for their cordial support which made it easy
for WHR to focus the issue of the single women in Dang.
Introduction of Organization
Who are single women?
Women who got no support of any kind from the male counterparts
in their families are called single women. Single women may
be a widow, divorce, separated or an unmarried woman over 35
years. This workshop was totally focused on the single women,
whose husbands are dead.
Introduction of organization
Women for Human Rights (WHR) is a Non-government organization
registered on 1994 with the Kathmandu District Administration
Office, HMG Ministry of Women & Children, Social Welfare
Council. WHR is formed to address the rights of single women
in Nepal. WHR, which is based in Kathmandu with its charitable
status, is rendering its services to the young needy single
women who are in difficult circumstances
and their children.
The main objectives of WHR are
- To raise the social
and economic status of Nepalese single women and their families.
- To mainstream the
rights of single women in development, humanitarian and peace
building projects.
- To enhance the capacity of single women
themselves to be their own 'agents of change', and to develop
their confidence and self esteem.
What
does WHR do?
Social Empowerment
- WHR advocates eliminating the social ostracism
of single women as to incorporate them into the social mainstream.
- WHR provides care and moral support to
destitute single women.
- WHR runs an open forum for single women
every last Friday to the Nepali month where they can share
their feelings and experiences through discussion.
- WHR offers counseling services and legal
awareness to the single women and their children.
Education
- WHR supports the needy children of single
women by providing scholarship.
Economic empowerment
- WHR work very closely
with a cooperative organization called Aadhar to assist the
needy single women to obtain micro credit to start income
generating activities.
- WHR has initiated the single women entrepreneur'
for the single women, to promote and find market for the products
made by single women in Nepal.
Empowerment for peace
- Publication seminars and conferences are
aimed towards women's participation in the peace movements.
Definition of Single Women
- Widows
- Divorcee
- Unmarried over 35
Years
- Staying alone
After the workshops in different districts
of Nepal, it was felt that organizing the Regional Workshops
in Dang in order to form single women group in every districts
and work collaboratively for the awareness and empowerment if
single women would be beneficial. One of the major problem in
Nepal is that of the after marks of insurgency, the number of
single women are increasing thus affecting many children are
most vulnerable victims in terms of education, health and psychological
impacts.
The main objective to conduct single women
workshop in Dang are to:
- Document the status of single women in
Dang emphasizing on the commonalties and diversities resulting
from socio- economic regional and cultural difference.
- Attempt to duplicate the best practices
on empowerment of single women thus, duplicate these practices
helped to create awareness.
- To observe the discriminatory
rules and regulations for her to fight for legal rights on
property, compensations with the revise study on legal perspective
help to move the declaration with the revised version on legal
rights of single women.
- Analyze the different
role of the society, culture, religion law and media concerns
single women.
- To build the network
in development religion with the guidance of the center based
WHR work force as well.
- To form the single women group in every
district of Nepal in order to help support to the single women
for the single women and by the single women.
The major reason behind the regional workshop
into the limelight is to draw the attention of every citizens
of the country of what is the set back in the lives of single
women when she is deprived to live as an individual, what are
her values, expectation and how she can be as normal as any
other citizens of the nation in the national economy and prove
to be the praise worthy citizen of this nation.
Opening Ceremony and Closing Ceremony.
The 3 days (10th - 12th June, 2003) Single
Women Workshop opening ceremony was conducted in Hotel Dang
Valley, Tribhuwan Nagar, Ghorahi, Dang. The opening ceremony
program was anchored by Amita Adhikary of WHR, Single Women
Group. The Honorable guests Chief Justice District, CDO, Local
Development Officer, President Bar Association, Journalists,
District Police officer, Local NGOs, and GOs in Dang were present
n this program along with 48 participants. The program started
lighting the floating candles and placing them on water. The
candle light in the water pot indicates the unity of single
women who were dispersed at one point of time. The objective
of three days programs was to unite all single women and tie
them in one knot to raise the collective voice against social,
cultural, norms and values which ahs negative impacts in the
society.
The President of WHR Single Women Group Lily
Thapa briefed about the objectives of the program. During the
program one single woman from Fulbari- 4 VDC presented her views.
The Chief Justice of Law, The Chief District Officer also presented
their views towards single women. Successful and praise worthy
Ballet ' Shakti' was shown in Dang signifying role to spread
the awareness of the stage of single women in our society, and
the impact of family. The vote of thanks was presented by, President
of Aadhar, saving/credit group.
Methodology
On the first phase of intervention on empowering
single women the workshop focused the participatory methodologies
by involving local bodies of governmental and non governmental
personals. The workshop aimed to include young single women
of different classes, castes and ethnicity emphasizing the victims
of conflict.
The inauguration of the workshop was with
a musical play to present the strength of single women against
the social evil to make aware to the local community, governmental
and non governmental personal.
The second phase will be capacity building
approach to empower group of single women in V.D.Cs of Dang
which will be day's package program of training that eventually
led to link with follow up training with other possible training
further more.
On the 3rd phase of interventions the group
themselves will find out the various schemes empowerment at
their local level in order to disseminate the knowledge to build
capacity to the needy single women.
Profile of the participants:
Dang being the most seriously vulnerable districts
of Nepal are suffering due to the insurgency in Nepal is found
facing immeasurably and uncountable barriers and obstacles to
grow ahead once again. Analyzing the situation of the after
marks of conflict between
Security forces and Maoist, high number of victims are women
who have turned single after their husband's death falling into
different circumstances. This intern is directly or indirectly
affecting the future of their children.
High percentages are found to be illiterate,
and few have attended old literacy programs. Total numbers of
population covered into this workshop were Hindus and are above
the age of 16 and below 51. Similarly 90% of these single women
possess their own living residences while others are living
in rent and few others in their parental homes. The cause of
death of husband varies from conflict between Maoist and security
forces to the natural death, accidents, illness and an unknown
murder case too. However irrespective of the circumstances these
women are living in, they strongly possesses the desire to work
or to get into formal income generating and skill oriented trainings
to have sustainable future ahead. For this if one is ready to
leave home town and to go abroad too, others are found interested
to earn their living by working within the home town.
Case study:
Sabitri Nepali aged 32 living in Goltakuri 8, a mother of three
children total, two daughters and one son. Sabitri turned single
after her husband was killed by security forces while he was
on his working period and was out of his home in the nearby
by forest. On his work to cut trees to collect wooden planks,
security forces forced him along with his six other friends
to dig the ground of the human size and buried them alive. This
incident could be reported in the community as one of these
six men managed to escape from their inhumanity. Sabitri is
an experienced women with skill of weaving, thus possesses a
desire to have a formal weaving training to generate income
and to live independently.
Case study:
Samjhana Budathoki the youngest of all the age group of 16 years
of aged a Hindu, is a resident of Kathokhel Bharatpur, Dang
11, and is a mother of one son. Her husband was a police officer
was killed during the insurgency and a conflict between Moist
and Security forces. This man already had a wife and a family
but had an extra marital affair with Samjhana who in her innocent
age lost the charm of her life. Therefore she is still not accepted
in her husband's family as they have no legal clue of Samjhana
being his wife. Today as student of 8th standard wishes to study
further and to get into the nursing training but has no formal
experience of any work. She is presently living in her parental
home.
Case study:
In the mood of festivity and when the celebration was flowing
in the air, Prem Kali Nepali faced the worst period of her life.
The day when few of the her neighbours were gathered at her
place in the celebrating mood in general, her husband and few
others neighbors men were shot by security forces, which according
to them was for not as single good reason. Prem kali is a Hindu,
living in Fulbari 4, who lives at her own home with mother-in-law
and her three sons. She has no work experiences and no training
thus hopes to get income generating trainings.
Case study:
Gayatri Pokhrel aged 50, lives in Tribhuwan Municipality 11
in Dang. A mother of one son lives with her daughter-in-law.
Minimum educational qualification background was not a barrier
for Sharadha to take the initiative to work for people and their
welfare. Just the S.L.C passed women turned single women after
her husband died in a plane crash in Nepal. Today she is a president
of Bidhuwa Mahila Sharokar Kendra of Jhapa, has formal training
experiences in nursing, saving/credit program and self-motivating
programs.
Social/Cultural/Religious Marginalization
- Present Scenario:
- Widows are not allowed to be the
part of social gatherings during the programs for good
women.('Subha Shayit, Subha karya, Shagun karya').
- Restrictions on healthy nutritious
food and colored dresses/ dress codes.
- Restrictions to hang around with
any male friends, or relatives.
- Treated and taken as slaves.
- Feeling of helplessness, lack of
self confidence.
- All negative aspects to be revised
and changed/ modified.
- All modified factors to be implemented
in day-to-day life.
- Negative and superstitious names
given for single women whose husband is dead for eg.'
Bokxi' means 'Witch'.
- Single women are always motivated
to take part in ill omen occasions to break the bangles,
to take off the Pote, to wipe off the sindoor, only
widows are allowed.
- Discrimination on widows according
to communal standard should be changed.
- No rights to live life independently
by her wish.
Findings:
The single women of Dang are still facing
discrimination and treating bad by the society through there
has been some voices arose against all these taboos by forming
an organization named ' Vidwa Sharokar Samaj Kendra' as a pressure
group in Dang. One of the biggest traumas that the single women
facing in Dang district was, the whole question of moral support
and counseling.
Economic Status:
- Present
Scenario:
- Lack of resources to provide education
to children of single women.
- Lack of knowledge
of property rights to use it effectively.
- Lack of knowledge of skill oriented
trainings.
- Problem faced
to ask for loan in villages.
- High problems with in family atmosphere
with failure to convince the objective.
- Unimaginable discrimination to insurgency
victim's families.
- Positive aspects:
- Confidence
and desire to work.
- Facility of
old age widow compensation
- Factors to be improved
- To ask for
equal legal rights it is necessary to improve the existing
need and demand of rules and regulations according to
the time.
- Increase in
the new skill developmental trainings.
- Equal access
to education and developing more of awareness raising
program to be conducted.
- Capacity building/
empowerment.
- Opportunity
of economical fund saving activities.
- Entrepreneurships.
- Age restrictions
for widow compensation should be abounded.
- Single women
of Maoist family should also receive the death compensation
of the deceased husband from the government.
- Unawareness
of skill developmental and economic empowerment programs.
Findings:
Though the constitution says all men and women
are equal however the society has made women and more to single
women into bonded slave. Due to not believing on the single
women, the society doesn't give any kind if big economic opportunities
to single women thus loose the self confidence. Lack of proper
education and professional skills make it impossible to find
them the suitable employment opportunity. Without access to
financial resources she is hard pressed to establish herself
independently. So the time as come for sincere effort to empower
single women by all the sectors of society.
Legal Review:
- Present Scenario:
- Domestic violence on widows is ignored.
- Single women whose husbands are dead
can claim for their property any time. If the property
is not claimed and circumstances of selling those property
arises the family members of her husband should get
the permission from this single women.
- Single women whose husband is dead
possess full right to use claim property according to
her wish,
- Marginalized surrounding. ('Sath'
boundary). Widows are supposed to live in the name of
her deceased husband, and is questioned if she is found
to have any doubtful relationships, her property rights
gets waived, this is not applicable for widower.
Findings:
Though the legal system have provided some
support in favor of single women now a days but lack of confidence
and lack of ignorance and awareness makes them easy victims
by the family members and the society. The new legal systems
have given priorities on legal rights for single women but still
a lot has to be done to provide the fundamentals rights for
the single women. Most of them are ignorant of their family's
account and property and therefore easily become victims by
the family.
Importance of single women group:
Due to the insurgency in Nepal in the midst
of various districts Dang has passed through the traumatic state
of affairs. People have migrated to Dang from Rolpa and Dolpa
etc. Therefore, through the pre-workshops and the studies in
Dang it was found that people there are illiterate and are suffering
due to extreme poverty and lacks the knowledge of their human
rights. In this case single women are found in the setback state
as very high number of population of women is single after their
husband's death resulted from the insurgency and conflict in
the country from past few years.
Thus to spread the awareness about the single
women's issue, how they are marginalized and are taken as an
unwanted element of this universe the single women group formation
was learnt to be imperative. As this helps them to become aware
of their socio-cultural, economical, legal rights in day to
day life, to unite the dispersed single women to come and work
together for self development and for human development and
welfare of the mankind.
Why do we need single
women organization?
- To bring the unity among the diversified
communal groups in Nepal.
- Helps to bring all the creative ideas
and thought together and to work out practically.
- To improve the economic strength.
- To bring the awareness through individual
or united ways.
- To increase the communal leadership
qualities.
- Advancement of thoughts transformation
from discrimination to equality.
- To bring a revolution of change of
the positive attitude in every family and its members
about the concept of widows in Nepal
- To bring a change in the present way
in which, the media symbolizes and figures out the widows
in the community.
- Social revolution from Anti- social
ways of up taking widows.
- To raise a voice against religious,
social superstitions and anti-cultural and anti-traditional
thoughts present in Nepal.
- How to increase
the single women to get involved in the welfare program.
- By inspiring to face the outside world.
- By exchanging the views and news.
- Strengthening economic status of women
by providing different skill development programs.
- Increasing the decision making capacity
and leadership qualities.
- Involving and
including women in different awareness building workshops/
seminars/ training programs.
- Introduction to human rights of women
and the ways to implement these.
- To introduce the legal and constitutional
rights.
- Rights to equality.
- Rights to independent living (rights
to work according to ones wishes and desires, organizations,
profession or any occupation).
- Governmental rights.
- Economic
Achievements:
- Formation of single women group.
Two new single women group was formed in Dang of 2 different
V.D.Cs namely Phulbari and Goltakuri. The new group formation
has included 33 new single women registered members.
- Saving/credit Program initiated:
WHR has provided the seed money of Rs- 2000/- for the opening
of saving/credit program in two V.D.Cs.
- Scholarships Program:
WHR has provided scholarships to the needy single women's
children with the money from the opportunity fund. Thus two
children from 2 different V.D.C have been provided with the
scholarship.
Action Plan and strategies of Single Women
Group in Dang.
Action Plan:
- Door to door campaign.
- WHR single women
organization to work as a central facilitator, for resource
and documentation information, sharing for the district levels
organizational networking.
- Once in a month
date and time to be fixed for monthly meeting on discussion
regarding the issues of single women, and to bring the awareness
programs. Minutes to be jot down.
- Advices and suggestions to be collected
from intellectuals present in the meeting.
- Talents and skills present in single women
to be brought out to exchange and to set a platform.
- Collect data's about the single women present
in individual's districts.
- To revolt against the discriminations and
tortures happening on single women in one's own community
and in others.
- Plan of future strategies of organizing
single women workshops/ seminars in one's district.
- Setting up group work and saving and credit
program.
Strategies:
- Monthly meeting with sharing and learning
following discussions with resource persons.
- Advocate the development of pertaining
apartments towards the rights of single women in the respective
communities.
- Bring out the social acceptance of single
women in religious and social functions.
- Eliminate the biasness due to the synonymous
of the word widow.
- Run the open forum for single women as
monthly basis.
- Provide care and support to destitute single
women of VDCs.
- Offer counseling services and legal awareness
to the abused single women and their children with the support
from local concerned authorities.
- Run Saving/ Credit program assist the needy
single women to obtain micro credit to start income generating
activities.
- Initiate the "single women entrepreneur"
for the single women, to promote & find market for the
products made by single women in Dang.
Approval of the Declaration:
DECLARATION
2060, Jestha, 26th - 28th.
The organization working for single women
empowerment had conducted 3 days workshops dated on 2060, Jestha
26th- 2060, Jestha 28th inclusive of different VDCs with 30
participants. During the period of the workshops every participants
represented the importance of the single women's group of their
respective districts, which led to several activities, like
group discussions, group discussions, presentations brought
out the sum of the discussion session. Workshop included various
factors influencing the present state of single women in Nepal,
which are socio-cultural, legal, religious, and the standpoint
were found to be similar, thus, it added to the path to improve
the status of single women's empowerment. Thus, our trial is
to make the Nepalese society and the people from different fields
and organizations of Nepal to be aware of single women's issue
and to accept the outcome.
We the participants and facilitator present
in this workshop hereby wish to draw the attention of our work
related fields and the government to bring the empowerment of
widows:
We hereby would like to focus on the new addressing
of widows as single women. This should be applicable in every
sphere of society and its people, governmental and non-governmental
organizations, schools and colleges. This recognition of single
women includes women whose husband are dead, divorcee, separated
women, women who are not married till the age of 35, and women
who gets no support of any kind from any male counter partner
of any types in the family.
We are here focusing on the impact on single
women due to the poverty, war, diseases, religion, disadvantages
and demerits due to natural and human created disasters, in
Nepal.
We want to clarify, the impact on single women
due to the misuse and misinterpretation of socio-cultural traditions,
beliefs, cultural norms and values and stereotyped beliefs of
religious epics.
We also want to clarify the discrimination
on single women by political imbalances, legal discriminations,
lack of awareness of legal rights of single women, contrast
in written legal polices and practical approach in daily lives,
low economic empowerment resulting into abolished human rights.
We wish to focus on the present scenario where
single women are invisible community and the point of time where
self identity of single women in society is nil. Thus, we bring
out the fact that no governmental as well as non-governmental
organizations has taken any single step towards socio-cultural,
physical, mental and economical upliftment of single women.
Single women are exploited in these ways:
- Views and saying of society, culture, traditional
and religious ways are found in contrast to the practice in
real life.
- Economically deprived, lack of job oriented
opportunities, resources and means, patriarchal views and
its result in building up the deprived single women category.
- Among the single women group, women whose
husbands are dead are considered merely as a 'thing' than
as a human, and as a burden. Single women are deprived of
the rights on her own body. Psychological and mental tortures,
carelessness in health and sexual harassments on single women
are common in Nepal.
We strongly protest:
- Such social and religious practices which
exploits single women.
- Patriarchal views based legal policies
which deprives human rights from single women.
- Injustices on single women.
- Terrorist, arms and bullets, war which
increases the percentage of single women.
We strongly support:
- Action avoiding unequal practices traditions,
norms and values through legal systems.
- Government should and must give attention
of providing death compensation to the Maoist victims too,
as this will be of some help to their families.
- Legal actions on those who gives no values
to the single women for her equality on human rights on her
body, social and individual prestige.
- Revising and improving the legal policies
on the single women and her rights on her property.
- Developing and policy making to give a
social security to single women and economic empowerment by
government.
- Raising a voice of women for human rights
in international level of meetings and seminars.
- Working together to bring out the opportunity
of equality and human rights of single women by governmental
and non-governmental organization, media and by UN.
- Bringing the total change on the existing
trend of negative social and religious norms and values, it
is necessary to bring religious and social organizations and
priests and religious preachers together.
- Every political parties should provide
reservations from grass root levels for the single women.
We bestow importance:
- State should provide special economical
allowances and benefits to women whose husbands are dead and
are in their youth, adolescence and the old age.
- Every organization coming together from
their individual sector for single women and to keep the existing
positive trend and to bring the awareness regarding the social
status of single women in front of governmental and non-governmental
organizations.
- Making the policy giving social security
for single women and her children, educational opportunities
and facilities and to turn them economically independent from
the level of local government.
- Joint venture of government and respective
sectors to carry on the level of gender equality and to practice
in real life.
- Religious groups and committees with positive
thoughts, media and social organization coming together to
bring the change against the discrimination on single women.
- Building awareness to give respect and
social dignity to single women and old aged people from the
early childhood.
- Curriculum development to bring awareness
regarding systems of remarriages among school and colleges
students.
- Acknowledgement of the activity that provides
the upliftment and facilitates single women.
- Research and study of facts and figures
of single women depending upon the field of work.
- Talents and skill present in single women
to be explored and given a platform.
- To raise a voice against war, and terror.
- To create the joint working atmosphere
with the organizations to maintain peace, build human rights
and to eliminate poverty.
- Upliftment of single women through media.
- Drawing immediate attention of HMG of single
women, orphans, due to war and terror in Nepal, and a request
to control over these aspects.
- Networking in every district to work for
single women through WHR.
- Facts and figures collection from the ward
level.
To bring the positive changes, is our objective
from this declaration. Depending upon which organizations, governments,
and individuals social workers are expected to follow these
proposal based declaration in united ways which in turn is helpful
and brings no second thought to improve the status of single
women in Nepal.
Lesson learnt and Findings
As a matter of insurgency most of the Dang
victims are subjected to psychological traumas where they are
found to be under depression and state of fear. While reading
the mind of the people in Dang every single human being was
found to be fearful and their mind looked preoccupied with the
single concern for the welfare of their children. Single women
thinks the problem they are facing today is because of the policies
in the country, legal policies, cultural practices, socialization
processes. The police families whose husband deceased encountering
receives compensation and salary regularly after 7 years pension
distribution. Where as Maoist families have no provision to
get the death compensation after husband's death as they are
taken as the enemy of the country both by the security forces
and also by the other civilians. Young single women are more
victimized comparative to adolescent single women. They are
violated, tortured within family and are ill treated by society
too.
Single women should ask and fight for their
human rights like other women in our society. To change the
society single women should first act as the agent of change
being aware of the present scenario and the way to improve it.
It is found that the urgent situation is to change the social
ostracisms, for which media plays a great role to bring the
awareness. Once the best practices of different groups is introduced
in awareness programs this would help to erase the negative
practices in our society. Major findings of the program was
the realization for the value of the formation of the single
women group in Dang to build up the unity amongst the dispersed
single women who are in majority the victims of the same cause,
the insurgency in Nepal.
The major finding of the workshop is that
the single women of young age go through lot of changes both
physically and psychologically. They feel alone and unwanted
by the society. Being marginalized by the every sector of society
and culturally reduced to non-entity most of them feel loss
of identity and loose self confidence.
Conclusions:
Single women's issue is one of the most neglected
issues in Nepal. Basically a woman's life is viewed as no specific
and individual value without her husbands. So it is indeed necessary
to empower the single women to change the whole status of women
at all. To empower the single women of Nepal, first of all it
is important to create awareness in the society in terms of
code of behaviors towards single women.
The governmental perspective of the rehabilitation
measures must undergo a qualitative change to make the package
more viable. More needs to be known about the condition of conflicts
victim's single women as there are discrimination on the government's
security measures. Sensitization for the family is need since
the subordination of women begins in the family. All the agencies
should encourage to the single women group in the district,
so that they may solve their problem themselves and work as
an agent of change in their respective areas.
Overall, it was clearly understood that the
single women are doubly discriminated against as women and as
being single. Above all, we need to sensitize ourselves to view
the single women and its trauma as a natural cycle of women's
life.
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